All right, so I've been married to my husband for two and a half years now, and the craziest shit popped off at dinner last night with him, my best friend, and her boyfriend. So we were all having a good time, drinks got involved, and we were talking about when we were younger. He knew my best friend before he knew me. She kind of introduced us. I had a feeling that maybe he had a crush on her way back then, but there was nothing serious. But I just figured out, out of a drunken rage, that he decided to only pursue me because she was not available. So basically, I feel like the reason why we were married is because she was not available, and that he still has a crush on her. That's fucked up. That's crazy, right? What should I do about it? I'm so hurt by it. I haven't spoke with him all day today. I'm upset.

My boy said second choice. That's that's kind of funny, but yeah, I mean like bruh He wouldn't have started dating you and then married you if he was still like into her like yeah That would that now he wouldn't have done that shit I think it's like a bit of insecurity on your part But you should really let that shit go because again like somebody said before it was in the past And you shouldn't be worried about it anymore You know because it could ruin things

Nah, he's valid. Let him cuck you with her.

Move on.

You're upset, but you have to understand, you have to let them know why you feel upset. You're out here sitting on your ass, feeling this pain, and they don't even know why. You have to let them know, cause no way you about to suffer like this. You have to let them know.