Hey, it's Trace. I didn't get to hear the rest of your message, but it sounded like they said something hurtful about you and your late husband. I really hope that you don't talk to them anymore.

He also told me that because I got a little bit on the chunkier side because my back's literally broken and I can't do anything, he didn't love me anymore because I wasn't pretty. I never am going to forgive him for that, ever.

About this guy, he obviously has serious issues, but I think you gotta not forget, forgive, because it's his problem, not yours, and, but don't forget. I'm so sorry that I-

So I apologize for that, but that guy's terrible and karma will come back to him.

Oh yeah, definitely. Karma is definitely going to **** him right in the ass. Cause I mean, I was so good to him and just the way he treated me, I was like, you know what? You're going to get what's coming to you one day. You really are.

You know the worst part is every single day I'm just hurting myself. My emotions, my feelings are getting hurt. Yesterday night I cried a lot, I cried a lot. I'm completely into depression.

I have no idea how shall I help myself. I'm feeling so sad that I can't even help myself. And I'm just being sad and depressed.

This person I have found is broken and he needs to heal and he needs a therapist and he would get offended at a lot of the things that I would say and I felt like I had to be walking on eggshells just to talk to him. So when it comes to that, that means the problem is that he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and

The problem is him not me. I have had conversations with him about this. I have tried to communicate. I have acknowledged where my faults are, because I know where my faults are. And I've acknowledged, but he would keep bringing it up over and over again.

When someone keeps doing that, to me, a part of that is like playing the victim and there's some narcissisticness in that. And then also that just tells me, hey, you are very sensitive, you have deep insecurities, there's healing that needs to happen. And you know, you're

I told him that I have a therapist and just coming from someone who has a therapist I think it would be best have you thought about it and he he knows and he needs to get one But it's just he's got to actually do the work and get one.

I prayed for him and I really do wish him the best. I hope that he heals and I hope that the right woman does come in his life, that it's perfect for him, but it just wasn't me. He pursued me. Yes, I curved him twice.

But then I came back around because I wanted to give him a chance and I wanted to be open to giving somebody a chance. And we ended up dating for 13 days and on just recently, Friday the 13th, it was done.

Good for you for figuring it out in 13 days. Good for you.

The way that he would just randomly say things so out of pocket and disgusting about other people and sometimes myself as well, I really cemented that I should not be with him and I'm glad that we're broken up.

BB, I'm so glad you're not with that guy anymore. Uh, it's his insecurity and not... Yeah, it's gotta do with him, not you.