Can you meet somebody, get married within six months, and have a long lasting successful healthy relationship? Or do you feel like you need more time to get to know a person? What y'all think? Let's talk about it.

I mean, if the sex is good and they're from another country and they need to stay, I'll do it.

Absolutely not. Firstly, it takes 180 days for the halo effect to wear off and then even then, a lot of times in abusive relationships, the abuse doesn't begin until like a year or two into the relationship when they start to feel like you're not going to go anywhere.

Okay, coming from a girl that has been engaged five separate times, I am glad that I never got married, uh, because I- that would have just been freaking awful. So don't do it. You need more time.

Six months is I, I mean, yeah, it's okay. Because I could go years and if I go years, I may not even like you anymore. After five years, we're over. So yeah, let's go six months.

I don't know if I can be married in six months, but I can know if I can marry you after six months. Six months to a year, most men know if they want to marry you.

I really don't know how to answer that because I was with a girl for five years. I thought she was the one but... Turned out she cheated on me. Uh-huh. So I really can't say.

For me, I would need more time. Right now, I'm just kind of dating and seeing what's out there because I've already been in a couple abusive relationships.

Okay, relationship coaches say that you should know if you want that person within the first three months. Like after the three months, you should have your mind made up. But marriage is a long-term commitment and should be taken seriously. So why not take extra months to f*** yourself.

Me personally, I just feel like shit. I need at least a year and a half maybe two because people change, you know people change through seasons so yeah I feel like...

The only way that's ever possible is if that's just like, you know, like you're a soulmate that God has just sent in your life and say, Hey, you know what? This is for you. Y'all are supposed to be together and y'all both feel it and everything just connects and everything aligns. Hey, sure go ahead.