hey everybody hey hey there this is sister crystal here and i'm back with another post this question is specific to the ladies ladies are you required to make a man's plate when you're out in public like a cookout or something like that and what i mean by that a man not your man not necessarily your man it could be any man a friend or something like that when you're out in public particularly at a family gathering are you required because you're a woman that you have to make a man any man's plate um let's discuss