I honestly think that projection is definitely, I still blame patriarchy and misogyny, always. They get the biggest blame for that. And I still low-key blame the men, too, because before women could check you and say that's gay and create this sassy ***** a pocketless list, men were calling they homeboys gay for doing very basic human things. When does it stop? When *****s grow up and know you gotta like somebody of the same sex to be gay.