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Why do we care what people think? Is it a subconscious thing? How do we stop caring for what people think, especially about us?
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With love. Oh for real, with love.
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And yes, there are people out there who you know, they love and care about you and want the best for you. So they're going to tell you how it is. So it's up to you how to handle it, you know, so that's why I was saying do it with love.
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If you do it with love, love is the answer. So you will have, you know, and I'm not promising nothing, but you know, so you'll have a more clearer mind on how to handle things if you do it with love and respect, you know?
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So if you do it with love, just think about it. First of all, you're loving yourself, respecting yourself, you're loving and respecting the other person. You'll have a much clearer mind, you'll be able to handle it according to your needs.
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going forward. So, you know, because sometimes, you know, when I was saying there's people who love and care about you, you have to take things with humility and respect and take it in and just see where they're coming from. But if you're doing it with love, you know, you'll be able to know and tell a difference. So, yeah.
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Yes I do agree we have to operate on me a little space because they loved by both give us clarity also we shouldn't take what they say it's a heart because if we do the work will be able to take accountability and build a no that is a vice
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Social anxiety. It's more common than you would even imagine. How would I deal with it? I don't know because I deal with anxiety on a daily so if anyone could help.
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I didn't even know that they could be tied in with us exactly but like I just realize I have social anxiety like I don't know if it's fear-based or what but it's like I can just feel like people just need to without save me
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I think the key thing is to listen to some people because some criticism you might just need to hear where others they're just being mean you've got to sort through it and get the right information.
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They do make sense but at the same time we have to be very sharp on the discernment because if we're not sharp sharp need to sign we just feel like you know is if our negative talk
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Because we have turned the volume up on other people's voices and turned down the volumes to our voices. So what we know to believe to be true about ourselves, we negate the truth because the other voices are now louder than our own.
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And that's exactly why I like I'm gonna point where I have closed after knows how to wear it because I have to hear me if I don't hear me I'll be lost
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Oh, that automatically happens when you get older. You don't really give a rat's ass. Sorry, maybe I'll get thrown off now.
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Truth, I want to be to that point where I give zero fucks. Like no fucks given.
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Hey, why do we care? It's a survival technique. Sometimes we feel like somebody else knows how to survive better So we put their voices in our head. At the end of the day, it's best to learn what do we need to survive? How do we get through?
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If it's making you dark, then you need to stop listening to the voices. It's hard, but at the end of the day, you need to not accept people's criticisms nor their compliments.
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Easy thing to say, you know what I'm saying? It's harder to do because, you know, when someone cares about you and you care about them and they say something, sometimes we take it to heart. But we gotta learn how to fix our needs.
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We need to learn how to fix our need to not really listen to what's going on and listen to what everybody else says. We have to learn the difference between a want and a need. Do we need to hear this or do we want to hear it?
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Because we want, because we want the approval of others. Others, it's human interaction that we want in love and compassion. It's natural, it's only natural. Yeah.
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There's pole bodies never fake, so I don't expect everybody to walk around with that philosophy. Moments will happen where we don't feel like that and that's perfectly normal. But I'm done smooches.
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They absolutely make sense it's all about it do you want to hear or do we need to hear and I feel like we take it so hard because we haven't done it in a work I feel like when we do the anywhere we are know they were there saying OK yeah that's right I need to fix
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Like like we were really start to take accountability instead of Lamium feel like they're speaking negative honest
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