So this is for the 35 and up ladies without kids who want them. I want to know if you're feeling like you're running out of time or say if you just started dating someone like I am, do you feel like you almost have to rush things or um like if you do take your time you're just gonna like get to a point where you maybe you won't be able to have kids. So I just want to hear your thoughts on this kind of how I'm feeling currently. My partner is three years younger than me but um you know men have a little bit more time for these things than we do so I just want to hear your thoughts.