So what, we should be with a broke guy who can't take care of us, and then we end up having to take care of him? So is that okay? And they come and lay up in our home, eat our food, take away from us, and if we have kids, they take away from us? Come on, that don't sound right, right? But they still do it, and then it's okay for a man to do it, but when we do it, it's gold diggers. Come on. I don't know about that, I still don't know for me.