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Hey you guys, it's check yourself just trying to sound bite thing out chat since everybody else doing it. Here we go so I've been in these streets all day and I've had a couple of conversations about You know giving people grace, you know, how many times do you allow a person to **** up or misstep? Before you rid your life with them, right? So I got the thinking I'll leave mine in the comments, but But do you think that we give our friends more grace over our boutang, our significant other, our loved one, our boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, whatever? Or do you think that we give more grace to our significant other than our friends? why.
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I'm gonna say, probably give friends more grace than you do a boo thing. And that may just be because of friends are with you in the trenches, which is not a valid reason, even their tenure can mess up how you feel about that.
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My tenure can have you feeling like, but this person was with me in the beginning. They were with me through their trenches. So what? They're doing shit I don't like. Maybe they have to, I think we make a little few more excuses for the forehand.
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And that's facts. Ten year will make you overlook some shit and give somebody passes because like especially if y'all been through some shit together, they've helped you in the past, you've helped them. You kind of feel like you owe it to them, so yeah, I totally get that.
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I'm gonna say the significant other gets more grace. Friends already know the lines and they shouldn't cross them.
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Greg facts agreed a 100% that I'm leaning towards you know significant others more because Usually, you know people be like, you know you **** over me once then that's it But then you see them giving their their people's chance at the chair
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I could be a better person Huckle genuinely be a better person I don't let nobody get a ******* grace if you **** up around me I'll **** you up
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Yeah I'm genuinely a mean *** person I get to quit to get angry like oh my God it doesn't get my anger light gonna be crazy
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Yeah but I do give like Mollo daughter Grace and garage but not not nobody else you think I'm mean to everybody else
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Hey Mike, thank you for participating in my soundbite. Wow, that's pretty rough sir. So are you free from flaw? So like nobody ever has to give you another chance to get it right.
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I think we get more grace to our significant other. Because our friends, you know, they get mad. Cool next day. You don't want to be in the doghouse. You don't want to get in the head of two saints.
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I agree with you on this one. So often I hear people saying, you know, you **** up with me and that's it. But then they turn around and they with the same dude or the same female going through the same turmoil over and over and over again. So it's like, who's getting more?
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I can say that I'm insecure I don't really like myself very much I treat myself very highly but at the end of the day I know that I would never let a ***** push boundaries with me soon as you do something I have to love you very much to excuse anything you do
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Being said I sent my boundary is very close to me so soon as you stepped out line just a little I'm cutting you off I know not my worth but I know necessarily like I know how how other people can put your limits text shit
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Hey, Glow. Thank you so much for participating. It looks like you're new to stereo. Welcome to stereo. I hope you're enjoying yourself. And first of all, you're beautiful. Don't let nobody tell you no different, okay?
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Thank you thank you thank you I really needed this at that birth of positivity really just spread through me and now I feel like I'm a spread positivity throughout today I really appreciate it thank you
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I'ma say we give our friends more grace because we'll take advice from our friends in regards to our significant others instead of taking our significant others advice in regards to our friends. That's crazy.
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Oh, Twixty, this is a great take on this. Thank you so much for participating. But, um, yeah, I think we should be able to listen to both honestly, because you, you know who in it for you, right? And I guess discernment helps us to know who to choose. But it's how you can
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It cut me off but I was just saying it can be very hard you know to be able because sometimes you feel like you're in the middle and you've got your friend pulling one side your man pulling the other side. I think boundaries have to be set up front on both levels so that people not cross.
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What up Jack? I had to chime in on this one. I would have to say we give more grace to our friends rather than to the ones we're in relationship with sometimes. I believe in him after comeback because
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assembly because I mean we expect for our loved one to just be a certain way our friends we don't expect so much from them so I think that's why we hold them you know, to higher standards than our friends.
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Nikki Norrie baby. Thank you for participating in my sound bite. So yeah, I do think that expectation plays a huge part in it because if I expected more from you and you let me down, you betrayed me then it hurts worse. but what your friends is like at what?
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Damn these 15 seconds just ain't gonna do it for me girl. Anyway. So but what's your phrase? At what point do you start expecting more? You know what I'm saying? In the character of people that you have around you. It's a really good way of looking at things. Thank you for participating.
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Oh I try to make sure that my significant other gets more grace but I think it tends to be easier to give grace to those that I'm not as close to think that's a human condition
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Hi ash wise good to meet you welcome to my sound bite So hey, can we expand a little bit on that you said it's easier Easier for people who you don't really know like that. That's really interesting
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That's a really interesting point because now I'm kind of wondering like if you get to know them more and more and more, does the amount of grace that you give them lessen? Or if your relationship goes to different heights, do you give less grace at that?
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Who want to set an alarm how the connection works into one of those situations for me personally I know that sometimes I miss my friends Margrace but this is
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Hi Zach, thank you so much for participating and I agree. You do also have to use discernment and knowing who you're dealing with. That is one of the 48 laws of power. Shout out to you!
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Your friends probably get more grace but you shouldn't be giving out too many chances to anybody
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Hi Zay, thank you for participating in my soundbite and I agree. I don't think you should give anybody too many chances to a point of disrespect because at some point I'm not giving you chances. That's that's just kind of who you are. So shout out to you.
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