You can't control trauma, like if it happens to you, then you're gonna be affected either way, like you can't help how you feel about it, you can't choose to just ignore it and push it aside because it's just gonna keep bubbling up, like, an extreme case is like, you go to war, and like you see your friend get blown up, you can't just move on from that, it's gonna stick with you, like, you know?