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So somebody said today, a lady said that some women are not independent because some women's husbands look after them. Now, I would disagree and say it doesn't mean that woman is not independent. But the thing is that really struck out to me is that she's single and she thinks she has a right to talk about other people's marriages and how it should be. Every marriage is different. But respect to that man who is providing.
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listen um to this woman that said that said that um that that woman that's married under her husband is not independent very wrong because first of all i would argue that she's way more independent than all these women that are dependent on the government for a paycheck i'm just saying wouldn't it be better to be dependent on your husband that's independence to me i'm just saying
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Also, in general, women's goal is to have children, so it would make the most logical sense for the man to make more anyways. But also, from a statistical view, men that make more money than the women in a relationship, they stay together. Those relationships stay together, they have fruition into marriage.
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And their is less likely from having a divorce.
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So would you say divorce is a good reason if there are money issues? 🙂just picking your brain 🧠
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No, I would say divorce is a last resort. If there's abuse on either side, like if the woman is abusing the man or the man is abusing the woman, or the children are not safe, that's when divorce is called for. If there's manipulation, you gotta be careful with that word, but if it's full-on mental abuse, divorce is called for.
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Yeah, I hear what you're saying, I agree. I just thought I'd pick your brain on that because a lot of people think it's, and this is just my opinion right, a lot of people think it's a green card to get a divorce just because he's not making enough money. You know what I mean? And I have a saying that says, life happens to us all. One minute you can be at your high moment, one time you can be low, you know?
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So in the context of the question Divorce if the guy's not making enough money. So in the first place, I'm guessing that this woman married this man that had money situation is That he lost money Okay, but that doesn't mean you leave him because he lost the money you help him you elevate him Um, maybe you compromise on some things you you cut back You
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In other words, you uplift the man, you help where he needs help, and you work together for the betterment of your family. Why would you choose the nuclear option? Why not, you know, at least contemplate on better options before choosing divorce? Now, I think still divorce...
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No, let’s contemplate a different situation, for example, if the woman provided understanding, support, compromise, sacrifice for the betterment of the family. And the man makes excuses and slacks off. This i this an example of a low probability situation because if the man started with money, made a mistake, bad investment—the man will get back up and fix it. But in this rare case I believe divorce is called for
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I'm a man, so I can't answer this question.
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