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I'm pretty late today but question of the day is have you ever been in a situationship or something similar? How did it feel like? What did you learn from that? Let me know!
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To be honest I always get myself into situationshaps as enjoyment without any commitment. I know that sounds naughty but uh... Jessica, hey!
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Jessica fucking run!
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Hey, I think situationships are because the one people are not like direct and honest with each other or even themselves. So, yep, I've never been in situationships. Literally, if you like men, I like you, we are dating.
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I've had several situationships before and the common denominator would be that they've never really verbalized their intention to me. Like if they want to pursue me or not and so it didn't really worked out.
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See I am so glad you ended that so quick If they can't communicate, what are you doing? Like? Why are you still there? But I'm glad you're not there anymore so...
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So I had to Google signs that you're in a situationship just to make sure I think I'm in denial. And wow, that article is a bit brutal. So yeah, unfortunately.
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And it is even with someone who says they are polyamorous. Like I don't know, does it make it better or worse?
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Polyamorous guys are so complicated. If you are used to a monogamous relationship and you are looking forward for that, then that situationship will always be a situationship for him. That's about it.
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I was in a situationship for over a year with someone, now we're official, and have been for almost another year, but it does not feel great. If you're one who's prone to feeling used, situationships are not for you.
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Girl, I am super happy that you have survived your situation ship after a year. For me, I got so unlucky, I stayed for fucking three years bitch, like ugh.
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The only thing I got is now I have commitment issues, trust issues, and fucking mental illness. And anxious attachment style. But, you know, I'm healing, I'm healing.
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I'm so sorry to hear that. Yeah, it was not really all great all fun for us and the situationship I did get cheated on and we worked on it worked on commitment issues. It took a lot of effort.
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And I'm not saying get yourself cheated on but know your boundaries and put your foot down because you're the only one who can do that for you
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I am so glad you said no to that guy. I feel like you just satisfied your ancestors there, and your ancestors also gave you like this gut feeling that no no this guy won't work in the future you're wasting your fucking time
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Okay, one advice with a lot of, hell lot of personal experience is Do whatever the fuck you want with your life. Just never ever be in a situation, Chip Just never do it. Please I request you all
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I was very recently in one that I got out super quickly because I saw it turning into one and I saw the signs and got out Now I'm dating someone that could potentially become a Situationship and I will not let it become one. So if you want a relationship don't get yourself in a situationship
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Preach, mama!
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Well, I'm not a big believer of situationship or whatever it means, right? I don't even know what it means. I mean, you're making a relationship because of the situation you're in? Or is the situation causing the relationship? Whatever it is.
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I seem not to be a big proponent of the situationship arrangement so it's a no for me and I've never been in one would never want to be
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