Yeah, who has a better understanding you feel me man or women about different topics Topic one for example Staying with your parents like is it okay to be stand your parents at 21 or is it okay? I'd be a stay with your parents at 30 you feel me back that time period You got to go ahead and know the person background So like for example, we just so you have one of these guys whatever right like somebody you know And they look like come on bro should have been moved at your mom house, right? Or you have some women be looking like a I want a man to have his own quarry have his own job and have his own house You know I'm saying stuff like that But who's more understanding to know the background of the person why they can't do some things you know So let me know who's more extended men and women.