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so I kind of want to just get some perspectives on. Do you think it's good or bad getting married in your early twenties or just in general? What are your thoughts? Let me know.
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As people have mentioned, it's a personal experience and it depends on the people themselves. My general perspective of this is that okay get married in your 20s but enjoy it, discover it with your partner.
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Hey lovely, um, I don't think it's a bad thing necessarily, but I think you definitely need to like tear it up and like have fun together and go do shit if you guys are gonna marry young. Like go-
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Um, what are you calling? Like go to the raves and just party it up, live it up, you know what I mean? I don't know, just go do whatever your heart content. Love you, bye.
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I do love this perspective because people do totally fall in love at that time when they're in early 20s but yeah no, you totally should still live up your 20s, you're young, you should go do things and if you have a partner to do that with, that's awesome.
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Okay I'm speaking from personal experience. Do not and I repeat do not if you can do not get married in your early 20s. Your 20s is your prime. You're supposed to live it up. Worry about yourself, experience life, experience the world. Do not get married.
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And I only say this because like I said personal experience and literally the best years of my life was sucked Out because of a horrendous marriage that lasted till I was about 26 ish Yeah, don't do it.
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Hey, so I'm really curious. I was wondering if you would be able to share more about that experience.
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Um, yeah, so essentially I got married when I was like 19 or 20. Um, me and the person were together for several years. I actually had two beautiful kids out of it, but I just did not know what I was walking into.
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Another thing is too we did not spend enough time getting to know one another. Culturally speaking we were not compatible neither that was a big thing and he was a serial cheater and yeah it was just a hot mess that I just really wish I could take that.
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But you know at this point I see it as one of my life lessons and I took from that experience whatever I was supposed to to help me evolve into the woman I am today and I am happily married again and like this person is my soulmate.
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more and there's a lot of things that you discover about yourself in your 20s. like go see what's out there, you know? and if not, if you don't want to then it's okay. you can go get my
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I feel like if you have to question it in your 20s, it's your best time not to because things like that it just happens versus you know you waiting for the actual person.
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I feel like in your 20s, cause I'm 25, I feel like live your life. You don't need to be thinking about marriage right now. I feel like 30 and up. That's when I feel like you should be wearing the
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I don't feel like we can tell anybody what's right for them. It just depends on, you know, what stage people are in in their lives at the time, right? Who are in their relationship. Like, my friend got married when she was 19 and she's never been happier. They're great together.
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I'm 27. I just got engaged. So, you know, my fiance is 34. Just, it's different for different people.
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With respect to everybody else's personal choices and such, everybody can do whatever that they feel is right in their life, but personally, I don't tend to agree with getting married in your early 20s. I feel like you have so much to learn about yourself, and other people do as well.
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Obviously it's different for everybody but I feel like in your early 20s or even in the 20s in general it's kind of the time to focus on you more, you know? Because like you're adult now, you can do whatever the fuck.
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These fights need to be a little bit longer but continuing on I'd say Early 20s. Yes for sure marriage. It can wait It can wait like You know what? I mean? You can do a lot
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Honestly, I do know what you mean because that's how I was when my husband now proposed to me. I was like, no, like I still have school to finish and I still have this. But for me, we got married because he's in the military.
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He is in the military so I feel like the only reason we got married is because he's away for so long and while the time that he's gone, I could probably move in with him. So that makes it easier for us to be together. Other than that, I feel like I would-
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