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All right, y'all, let's talk to what's the most specific red flag you have when you're dating men? If that's what you're interested in, Unfortunately I am. But I am taking Thank God this is mine. If Wolf of Wall Street is their favourite movie of all time bitch run in.
A man who refuses to go to therapy, whether one-on-one, couples, or if there are financial barriers, any kind of therapeutic tool. But ever since your episode about skipping leg day, I can't get that out of my mind as a red flag.
well if the person doesn't need the therapy and the therapy is being imposed on the person then definitely the person would want to go leave the person alone why do they you're imposing therapy on the person
Having said that, I believe if the person needs the therapy and the person is just being adamant, despite the fact, despite knowing that, then definitely you're right.
Yeah, my sister was married to a doctor, a general practitioner at family practice and like they were having marital problems and like he would not go see a marriage counseling at all. You know, even when he gets sick, he won't go to the hospital.
A big red flag to me is when a man says that all of his exes were crazy. In my opinion, there's no way that every single person that you dated was crazy without you having something to do with it. Like maybe you're doing something toxic.
My fucking gosh, instant red flag is when I see a guy in a club with like pants that are like really low like hanging like as if like yo I'm from like 2012 and I'm like a swagger wagga you know no not it not it
A fucking siren girl, like you know one of those like siren that tells you like you need to go down, there's tornado, wee wee wee. That would be worse than a red flag.
Well I believe it's their personal choice if they want to wear the pants like that or the siren girl wants to shout like that but yeah I understand if you don't like it.
Even a bigger red flag would be if you are dating a person and then you find out that they have kids and they never told you about it. Like, what the fuck? Red flag.
As someone who's into astrology, the biggest red flag is when males vehemently are against it. Like chill, you don't need to like it, but it's weirdo behavior when you try to belittle women for it.
Like if a woman likes something that in society is like seen as something women do like for example Like painting nails or braiding your hair and they make you feel stupid for liking anything feminine Like that people see as feminine sometimes
honestly when they start talking about like gender roles like oh like you need to be in charge of like washing dishes and like laundry and stuff like no
I'm not gonna lie, I have men do this to me often to where I started doing it back. So before, like, with any of my guy friends, any guys that I have to meet or anything like that, I make it a joke.
I say that they have to be the ones that cook, clean, stay home, be caretakers and stuff like that and it like, they just like, bro what in the world is going on?
I'm so happy to hear that other women feel this way because I was not sure if I was like the only woman on earth who's like, hell no, you know, you can kiss my ass dude. Like, um, why? Mm-mm, let's hire somebody.
Look, sweet Shae Shae, I'm the same way I was wondering that too. I'm glad she brought up that point because my thing is, I literally will get rebellious. I was going to wash the dishes but since you said that, nope, not anymore.
I'm honestly as someone who's with a woman now and so grateful for that. I have to say any man who drives a big old truck No, even if it's for work. No Absolutely red flag
What's wrong with a big old truck? I didn't understand it. I don't have a big old truck, but I'm just asking out of curiosity. What's wrong with that? What does that indicate to you?
So you're on like whatever dating app you're on you're swiping and swiping and he's got pictures boom one of them. It's the Joker. Oh Hell the fuck no, bye
That's so fucking funny because it's kind of it's a filter for both y'all right like he doesn't want anybody who doesn't Like the Joker and he is not gonna get any he's not he's not getting any
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This is so funny because it happens so often and there's there's so many like there's so much to unpack Just from that fact alone That they would choose the Joker
So then you know he's looking for Harley Quinn, girl. He has a Harley Quinn fetish, that's what that is. He's trying to take a good girl and make her bad, turn her out. Better watch out for the Joker.
I don't think that's what Harley Quinn is though. Harley Quinn is the result of intense emotional and psychological abuse at the hands of her romantic partner. Which is why the Joker is a real big flag. Like, you think that's cute?
A major red flag for me would be if he goes by a nickname and he'll only give you that nickname Like he like you don't know his real name Nobody does just the nickname major red flag like what's your name dude?
I've never actually had that happen romantically, but I have known guys that have done that. It's fucking weird. Like what are you hiding? I'm not doing fucking background checks on random motherfuckers.
You're like, did your mother give you that name? I know she didn't name you Jackass, you know what I'm saying? Or some shit like that, right? I understand what you're saying.
Thank you for understanding exactly what I meant. That's exactly what I meant. It's like you just have to give me your name. What's your name? I'm not gonna background check you but now that you don't want to give me your name I want to do all that, you know?