I guess what I'm saying is everyone is capable of doing it, but it's finding those individuals that value another person so deeply that it would be unthinkable to ever do that to them.

And I think the more we see it happen, the more it happens, the more we lose interest in finding someone that values you and the more we lose interest in valuing someone because you just don't know when, you never know when you're actually wasting your time.

It's important to note that loyalty and respect have nothing to do with upbringing or religion or even morals that have been taught to you. So if you love someone and you have a respect for them, doing something like that to them is and should be unthinkable.

And if you look back, usually society normalizes certain things simply because they don't want to feel bad for doing it. So it's not a good thing but cheating should definitely not be normalized simply because it is a disconnect from your partner.