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wanting someone who don't want you. Why shit If I know I'm in that. But that's why I'm asking. I'm trying to figure this out myself. Uhh! Wait a minute. Also, P s no, don't get their name tattooed on.
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That's a natural question, however, it's very easy to find out actually to be honest. You want someone who doesn't want you because you don't have anything there.
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It could only be because you don't have anything better to focus on. Shift your focus to something better. Then you'll realize that all this time you've just been wasting on somebody who didn't even deserve it. Simple.
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I truly believe that helps because it's a shitty situation to be in and I can relate to that. I got over it pretty quickly with its logic.
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Life is meant to be abundant and that simply implies that focusing on one person, especially one that doesn't even deserve it, isn't worth it. Just get over it. There are so many other things. Life is meant to be abundant and that simply implies that simply means that simply means that simply means that simply means that simply means that simply means that simply
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I'll show one more example because I think it makes a lot of sense. See, when you're poor, you just could afford one second-hand car. That's the only car and you give it all, I mean all of your love and attention and...
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whatever happens to a car if something wrong happens let's say a dent or something something bad it hurts but a person is living in abundance let's say a big business person right
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let's say a business tycoon he is 20 and he's buying more he has won all the top models best cars in the world Rolls Royce and Ferrari
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Lamborghini's, you know, he has private jets, he has yachts, he has so many other things, he doesn't even know where his cars are, it doesn't even matter to him, he's in the process.
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He is in the process of buying some more, right? This new Bugatti just came out. It's going after that. And it's also interested in, let's say, a Bentley.
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not only cars he's also buying jets this new jet jetliner this came out is going after that as well she's looking forward in his future right that's what I meant
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That's the moral of the story. Look ahead, don't look back, live in abundance. Especially if the person didn't even deserve it. Forget it. Forget the person. Right. Get new friends.
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One thing I think that people definitely mess up a lot is that they tend to over-obsess and definitely don't do that because it's very unattractive.
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Because that person meets all the qualities that you want, so the heart desires it. But the heart wants what the heart wants, and sometimes what the heart wants doesn't want us back. It's natural.
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And sometimes us beings, we don't take kindly to rejection. It doesn't feel well.
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Just don't entertain any idea in your head. Do anything else. Play games, read a book, like play with friends, like, or just talk to a person who actually reciprocates that they're interested. Like, you'll get over it. We all do eventually.
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I know it seems like an absolute fucking heartache and a nightmare right now, but you will get over it. You just have to stop entertaining the idea in your head. If you catch yourself thinking about them, like actively try to stop, you know?
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Honestly, it's the thrill of the chase. It's exciting. It's riveting. It's just thrilling. Even though you might come out damaged in the end, it's an excitement, an adventure.
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I will not put myself in that position. The feeling has to be mutual and if it's not, then I keep it moving.
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That's a tough one, man. But is it more like feeling they don't want you or you know for a fact they don't want you? Because those are two different scenarios, man. If you feel they don't want you, the key is to work on yourself enough so that it doesn't matter if they want you or not.
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Want something for nothing, some of things, no things, yeah. We want bad gluttony. We like to be a di-
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Well, you can't help who you want, right? You don't decide who you want. That's like, you don't decide when you're hungry. You just are hungry. You just want who you want, right?
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I would advise anyone in the situation to protect themselves as much as they can. Try not to think about this person, entertain this person, give your energy away to this person. Once you do that, see how they respond to you, right? Maybe that they've taken advantage of the attention, love, affection that you give. Once you retrieve that, retract that, you can see how they respond to you.
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See how they respond are they more interested in you now that you're not showing so much interest in them because that's the thing That's common with women right or are they just going about their business if that's the case you have to let it go It's no longer serving you choose yourself.
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