This is destiny to Polski. Wondering Why is it so hard to make friends in your thirties? Why can't we do it? Or at least what am I missing? What are we missing?

It's hard to make friends in your 30s because it's kind of like you already have a sense of who you are and when you have a sense of who you are, you have a sense of what you're not going to put up with. And sometimes making new friends is just not worth the trouble. It's just not.

In our 30s, we don't take it lightly who we call our friend. So in our 30s, we're very judgmental when it comes to friendship. Not saying that we're judgmental people.

Like I was saying life give you more challenges, so you know you have to be on point and Make your friends can sometimes be a distraction if you just want to be all the way honest about it, you know friends can be a distraction.

Well, let me try to answer that. It's not that we are missing something. It's just that society has become a lot more selfish. And in a selfish society, the person looking for friends could be so selfish.

You know what? We now have more priorities in our 30s, so I can understand why it's difficult to make friends in your 30s. You have more priorities, you have children, you have, like the other gentleman said, life.

Most people in their 30s are married, have kids jobs and they are actually quite busy with their lives and don't have much time to go out with their friends as they used to when they were in college and high school.

It's hard to make friends in your mid-20s anyway. I think it's just hard to make friends. I mean, I don't know, you just gotta keep putting yourself out there, I guess.

I think everyone's kind of involved in their own life, where they're trying to go, what they're trying to do. So it's kind of hard to, you know, put time aside and be open with other people.