Yeah, definitely empowerment. I would say that but into the eyes of people who like, you know, maybe are developing their emotional intelligence, it can come across like we're very numb, like we're not addressing it but I think the difference is we've addressed it not we're

Well if you want to know a little bit more go through some of the what is emotion podcast I did yesterday that will help if you want to know a little bit more but I get what you mean squishy that's funny

I think yeah, it is neutrality but that's when you get emotional intelligence. It doesn't escape the fact that before we classified that as numbness in which case we can still feel it even though we're aware of it.

Very true, you are then as emotionally intelligent susceptible to way more than people that used to stay under the radar. But the thing is that does that make you eventually get numb to these experiences as you just get used to it?

Mm-hmm. Yeah, I think you're right. It's depending on which side of the fence you're looking at. Because, of course, you've experienced so many things enough to know not to do them and then you see, you know, other things other people doing it can get a bit fucked up and make you feel a little bit dead inside.