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Okay, imagine this somebody tells you that they want to date you but you're not interested. What would you say or do? Ghosting is not an option. So imagine ghosting doesn't exist. Tell me what's the plan because for me I'm just gonna keep it as honest as I can and let them know that we're not compatible and that I wish them all the best, but I'm very curious to hear what you would say or do.
In my opinion, I'd be honest. I mean, why do I like it somewhat, or like, leave them on, or just like, full on ghost and that's just... That's just not right.
I would embarrass the fuck out of them like publicly or privately like I would tell them if they asked me privately I'd be like no, I don't fucking like you at all. I don't know what fuck you would think I would reciprocate to you and if it's publicly I'm gonna call them out And it would be like, Bitch, what the fuck do you think you are to try to ask me out? I'll just step on you.
Be honest, friends zone them. Like really just look them dead in the eyes and say listen I do not see this going anywhere that can be romantic but I value you as a friend and that is it. It's like really just like you know like yo I know this may hurt but this is this has to touch your soul okay I don't want to hit yourself but I mean hey if that's what I got to do that's what I do.
And then I'm gonna ask them, do you think that we can be just friends? Are you able to let that happen? Like, or is it, are your feelings too great for me to where we can't be just friends? Because I have to know that too. Because I haven't asked that question before and then people have still tried to get with me after I put them in the friends zone which is damn near disrespectful. So, I gotta see where they're honestly at and if we can't be friends then that sucks.
I'll just be like, I know you like me, or whatever, like if they like me, and I know, I know, but me, I'm personally not feeling it, you know? Like, I'm sorry, but I'm not feeling it.
No like if I don't feel them if I don't like them I'll let it go as long as it Hass until I fucking hate them and then they'll know for sure based off energy that I don't fuck with them
Usually I ask them why they want to date me like what trades about me or about our dynamic they gave them those feelings in the first place and then I expressed to them that I didn't obtain those emotions in myself and I just say no But thanks anyways