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How easy or hard is it for you to forgive others? I know for me it takes a little bit of time for me to kind of let go of some grudges, but overall I do try to forgive people so that I am not feeling hurt anymore or angry over whatever it is that they have done to me or whatever. But what about you?
Forgive me others, how long does it take for me? It takes a long time Maybe it takes me like a couple weeks if it's real bad it'll take me a couple of months to get over it
So whenever I was younger I used to forgive really really easily and I think I'm as I get older like I'm waiting until I'm ready to forgive because I'm letting myself actually feel all the feelings first.
I think for me, it takes a little bit longer to forgive people. It just kind of depends on what they did, what I did, and if they've really changed as a person.
Before I really forgive them, I have to see are they making changes? Am I making changes? What am I doing to better myself with whatever relationship I'm in? Friendship? Romantic? Any? So yeah.
For the most part, it's contented upon the severity of the situation. But outside of that, it's easy for me to forgive people. It's easy. And sometimes it's too a fault. Sometimes I wish I could hold grudges on people, but I cannot. At the same time, I'm grateful for that.
What I do is I forgive myself forever knowing you. Ha ha ha. I'm not kidding. I am one cold bitch. If you cross me or do something, I just will never think of you again.
It's easy for me to forgive people because I learned how to let stuff go a long time ago. It don't do nothing for your spirit to hold on to stuff. But just because I forgive you, that don't mean I gotta fuck with you.
It depends on the offense. And yeah, it's like how much, how big, how- what did you do to disrespect me? You know what I'm saying? And from there, I mean, sometimes it's gonna take time.
when i get to that point of forgiveness, because who wants to hold on to poison expecting the other to drink it but it's really affecting us? no. but when i do forgive, i promise you i will never forget. no.