Okay, so like genuine question I have a morning this February if you marry your stepdad Are your kids like your grandkids? Are they your first kids? Are they your stepgrandkids? Like like what the fuck? Like what the fuck are your kids? I? Don't know and then how does like the whole like family dynamic work like I'm lost on this, you know, I'm having an actual dilemma here. I Don't know you give me your answers