Personality, okay? And I'll tell you why. It's a lot easier to tell someone respectfully that they're ugly and you want them to lose weight than it is for you to say you're a horrible fucking person and I want you to change. So yeah, I'd rather date someone that I don't argue and bitch with all the time and just it's just a little bit ugly because at some point they'll change that for me if they really care about me because I would I'd do that for the person I care about if I was up.