When social media first came out I had the ability to connect with people from different universities via Facebook and it was predominantly Jewish guys from some of the Ivy League's because I don't know Indians in Jews seem to work at a Thai but as social media began to evolve the novelty of connection began to feed and the insertion of opinions of others in the context of connection became the predominant way of operating on the streets so for example the light gray it's such a simple future but the concept that anybody else would have an opinion about a photo that you've taken a stranger would was for in prior to that and in this day and age I am trying to navigate dating and also coming into my own and unfortunately I am subject to the Greek chorus and because there are other individuals involved that instead of seeing love as something that singular that two people feel for each other that it's seen through the lens of plurality of like well you know if this shit It sells you could easily replace it with another one and I don't just blame social media for the advent of reality shows where they've commoditize dating and this concept that multiple people can like you know compete with each other for some thing when love is some thing a little more pure and so I don't care what the world thinks of where my heart is that I am pretty clear about what I feel and I'm hoping that in spite of all of the chaos that love and it's pure form wins because as somebody that I care about says love is the answer