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Alright, this question is for my ladies. Would you date someone shorter than you? Better yet, would you date someone shorter than you for the long haul? Maybe even a marriage. I'm interested to know.
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To me, the height does not matter. It's the personality. If they're a bitch and they don't treat you kindly, then I'm not going to go for you. But if you're nice and sweet and you have great communication skills, then I will go for you.
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I agree like how it doesn't really matter to me either it's always the personality that's mattered like if you're nice I'll date you but if you're mean then no
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The height thing hits primal notes for women because you just feel safer when a man can see clear over your head. So that's why usually a man would have to make a lot of money to compensate if he is significantly shorter.
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A woman's desire for safety and security is about as strong as a man's desire for sex.
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As far as I'm concerned, it's no different from bigger women typically needing to put way more effort into their appearance to compete It just is what it is.
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How is it the same thing when you could just lose weight?
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If they really could manage to lose the weight and keep it off, and keep it off, meaning five years later, it's still off, do you really think they would be walking around here being 300 pounds?
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If they could just lose the weight and keep it off, do you really think they will be calling men every name in the book for not finding them attractive at 350 pounds when they're not going above and beyond with their appearance?
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By the same token, the men can also just get a job, they can acquire some skills, solve some problems, be useful in the world, and get that money.
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The point is that men have their typical preferences and women have their typical preferences. And when either falls short, they both have to compensate. That's just how this works.
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Uh, if you're not eating healthily and you don't work out, then yeah, you're gonna be 300 pounds. And becoming wealthy isn't the same thing as losing weight, so...
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Who said anything about being wealthy and what are you talking about? The question is about dating men who are shorter than you. The average woman is 5'5 and the average man is 5'9. The average man is not having a problem finding a woman who's shorter than him.
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And regarding eating healthily, okay, but who gets to define what that is? There's like a thousand different definitions of what that is, including among scientists and researchers who specialize in this. You have PhDs who cannot figure this out.
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I would have liked people who are shorter than me hi it's not a big thing to me like oh my God I'm 612 I'm 66 it's not a big thing for me I don't wanna hear about it so long as you're not a midget we're good but yes I would
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Mmm, I don't think so. I'm already short myself, so yeah, I don't know about that one.
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Kill yourself kill yourself now
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I think that's a little fair. If shard is short, I think it's only right you give them a chance. Cause you know, you can be like 5'2", and stand great and look up like, What the fuck did y'all do to me? Why?
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Oh, no thanks.
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You know what? That's completely reasonable. Like, if I was you, I also wouldn't want to date a short guy. And, uh, I also wouldn't want to date a girl who's over 200 pounds. Hey you!
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I have never dated anyone shorter than me. I don't think short guys are attracted to me. I'm a little tall. I'm 5'5". No short guy has ever approached me. My husband is 16'3". So yeah, I don't think I'm their type.
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I'm not gonna lie to you, you took me out when you said I'm a little tall, I'm 5'5". Cause in the tall world, I'm a little tall and I'm 5'11". And I got some female friends that's like 6'2". So...
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Did you just say you're a little tall? You're 5'5"? What?
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Nah
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He said, nah, I gave y'all some. Brra! Caw, caw, caw!
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Look, if they're cute, and they're nice, and they're sweet to me, then why the fuck not? I don't understand it.
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No, simply for the reason that it would cripple my back. And I already have enough back painesses.
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explain
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Right bro? What the fuck is she talking about? Like, what bro? Fuck is her problem?
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If I didn't have back pain and back problems, then yeah I'd date someone shorter than me. But I wouldn't care.
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Bro, fuck your back problems, bro. Nobody gives a shit.
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Right, cause what the fuck is she on? Got the whole squawk of you.
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