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So like there's this question in my head these days and I've been thinking about it and So far I've found no answers in my head and the question is why can't we love somebody as much as we miss them when we lose them and and why? just why?
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So broactryl to be sincere Relationship is so complicated and you can't explain what love is definitely you cannot and I can bet you all with you that you always you only miss the sun when it's that Raining and That's when you realize the value of something you had and you never valued it. That's why that's the nature and and you cannot.
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So actually that's the nature and you cannot question nature and that's our life is you definitely you know you cannot Realize the value of something you have until you lose it and that's our life is so So, this is how it all started.
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Why can't we miss somebody as much as why can't we love somebody as much as when they're not around so it's the longing that's stronger than the having yeah yeah we tend to miss things and long for things and then once we have and she's like, okay, we've got it.
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If you're British I hate you because I hate British people
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No, I'm not British. I'm not even a native English speaker. I just, you know, I was just taught British English. I mean like I can try to go American as well but I'm not like good at it, you know what I'm saying. So I prefer going with the British accent. I mean it's a fake British accent obviously because I'm not native but still. Anyways, hope you're having a fun day mate.
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This Niga yes you don't want things like this simple now I'm going to go continue on my day I hate it cause I hate it like I don't know how many people today but stay stay down a dream and 60 stay safe Niga no stay
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To be honest nobody knows the true definition of love and that's a fact however when you met somebody or you realize either you have regret that you could've done something better or you just genuinely don't know how much somebody meant to you until you have lost that person And that's just how it is it's really no explanation it's just how your brain works
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And another thing till it goes a long way with like being attached to that person and then it's like saying not really taking candy from a baby but like when you have some thing that means so much to you and then it's not there anymore obviously you're going to feel empty inside or hurt
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Now I'm not sure how experienced I am in terms of love and just relationships in general, however, I think when you find someone that means a lot to you, the idea of missing them when they're not there feeling stronger than when they are there may in some ways start to even out.
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At least, in general, I think for a lot, in my opinion, I think when you find that person that just means so much to you, you know, this is what I hope, honestly, someone that just really clicks with you, you know, it's, it's, it's, it's not something that you struggle with, I think you feel it, you express it fully with them,
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Because I've, you know, I've seen it, you know, I've seen it in face value. Someone seeming just so in love with somebody and they're there, you know, they're there with them and they're just so affectionate and expressive about it in a way that the chemistry isn't mismatched. It's not messed up. So I think, I think it's possible.
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Last recording I make, I think that someone going distant from someone, whether they are in love with them or not, still has that fondness for said person, for missing them. I think, I think, keyword I think, that it's, you know, it's just, that's just kind of the way it is. Whether you're 99% in love or 50% or lower or whatever, it's just, I think that's just what humans are.
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Because I think that's connection thing. I think we just, we thrive on connection, right? Someone mentioned how, and I don't know if this is a good thing, but, you know how solitary confinement is like one of the worst ways of, you know, inflicting on a person. Because we really thrive on connection, so maybe regardless of whether you're 100 with them or not, you're always going to feel that longing when they're not there. I could be, I don't, who knows?
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This is the last thing I say, I promise, but I think there's like scientific proof of it or something like that or some kind of scientific backup to how, you know, connections is a big thing for humans. So maybe that has something to do with your question. That's just kind of the way we're programmed, perhaps. Anyway, that's all. Have a blessed day. Thank you for this question. It was really cool to answer. As you can see, I answer with so many posts.
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I don't know much about love since I'm only 15, I never had a boyfriend before, but I feel like my intake on this would probably be that I think when you lose someone, you kind of realize how much they meant to you, and so it kind of like gives you that perspective of like how much love you could have put in when you guys were together. So I feel like that's why you can't fail it because once you lose them, you really know.
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