OK I have a question for whoever wants to respond to this if your boyfriend or girlfriend cheats on you do you blame them or the person they cheated on you with or do you blame both of them

Yeah, I'ma see about my ex first, cuz I probably won't even know the other person, but if I do know them, then they both at fault. But I'ma check my ex first cuz oh yeah, he's definitely an ex if he cheats.

If the person they were cheating with knows, then I'm blaming fucking both of them, obviously. What the? Dog. Like, I've never been cheated on, but I know how much that shit hurts. Oh my God.

I'm blaming them. They made the decision to go ahead and cheat in the first place.

What sense does it make for you to get mad at the person your partner is cheating on you with? For all they know, your partner lied and said they were single, or never even brought you up to begin with. It's not their fault.