So I want to know your guises opinion so I was texting my boyfriend telling him that I was gonna go to bed early so he left me on red I'm like OK whatever I'm just gonna go to bed and then I wake up to find out that he went to a club but I thought he was going to be home all night he didn't tell me so would that be a red flag or am I just overreacting

Shady, shady, shady. You need to say something girl. That's not cool at all. Matter of fact, you should just do that to him. Next time he's like, okay, baby, I'm going to play early, I don't feel good. Go to the club with your girls.

Would you tell him if you were going out? If the answer is no, then there really isn't much of an issue. If the answer is yes, then simply talk to him. Don't do any of this shady shit, don't go behind his back, clear and open and honest communication wins the day. Don't do anything else, just communicate otherwise it may turn into something worse. Please, just communicate with him.

I mean, I feel like you should have communicated that with you. To be honest, if you are dating, she'll let you know, give you a heads up what you got going on.