So what do you do about insecurities as a man and a woman? Like if your spouse is very insecure about things, like what do you do? Cause that's, that's crazy. Like even if you like put your trust in them and you tell them straight up, like I'm not worried about nobody else. And they actually show you that they're not worried about nobody else. But specifically, safe for instance, the man is really just like, oh my God, you're doing something. They always feel like you're doing something. but the woman isn't even like too tempted to be like, oh, you're doing this. But she might have a feeling, but she don't say nothing because she just waiting to see your actions. And it should be vice versa. Like, what do you do? What would you do? Honestly, what would you do?