Before having kids was there a specific gender you wanted first? So for me, I wanted a little boy first Turns out guys God was not on the same side as I was He said you're getting little girls and that's all you are getting. I have three little girls now I'm done having children. I did not get the little boy that I had always dreamed and hoped for but it's okay I'm perfectly fine with my little girls now, but yeah, I'm just curious to know if anyone else experienced the same thing.
Hot take, but it's kinda weird to have a preference of what hardware your kids come with and then imposing an identity on them based on that. Just let them discover who they are. Let them figure out what feels natural to them.
I really wanted a girl first. Um, I think because I am the oldest out of four siblings. Um, and we have two boys so far and I would have to be honest I was a little disappointed at first, but honestly, I love it. skul.