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I've been the toxic person in the relationship. I've dealt with toxic people in relationships, but I like to take a lot of authority over my attitude and my choices. So yes, I have definitely been that person.
I tend to think that it takes two to tango, so if you're in a toxic relationship, odds are that, subconsciously or not, you're contributing to the toxicity, in one way or another, either by tolerating or not.
I have been the toxic person in the relationship only because I was reactive to the toxic guy I was with. So we were just going back and forth beefing. Like it was not love, it was a power struggle. So there's that. Never again.