So I wanted to touch on this tweet that you can see in the background right so this young lady says dude tells me the last time he took a lady friend to a family gathering they just her for not going into the kitchen to help the women I said let me tell you what I'm not Phinne do here we go let me start by saying this stop fucking telling people what you not gonna do And maybe just try it we wanna say we talking about this generation they are very I won't do because they don't have a because they just don't want to do it that's completely fine it's completely valid but we were not going to do it is that shit she said if I am a guess why do you expect me to contribute labor is it really labor to just literally go into a room full of other women that probably won't ask to actually do shit just honestly want to be around you to have a moment to get away from the fucking men are you are you that didn't are you that slow like it is it really bothers me that You were instantly in defense mode about something that is not even that contrary it's just a formality I know it's my sound crazy but this is actually how most households are it is sorry

I think I would be afraid that the first time you meet somebody's family Even if you can't cook I'd like nervous I I'm nervous you know like and whenever I'm nervous I mess up stuff and I do I like cooking but when I'm in my groove and when I'm in my kitchen because I know my kitchen I know how to navigate the kitchen I I'll be so afraid and it's not that I wouldn't do it but I would just probably ask for like a small task and be really really quiet

See girls do that and then be confused why the partners mama don't like them like bitch go help in the motherfucking kitchen like why do you think you're too good to go help and if you feel like you're not then you probably don't need to be with that man's family oriented family or if you're mad at the men are just sitting there and maybe this isn't the guy for you because he clearly is on traditional shit

Why like not every night everyone knows how to cook and run the family in around the cookout you know how to cook if you don't know how to cook steak you as the background drink the soda drink that like all that say ass out of the goddamn kitchen

Yeah I don't know who establish this is longtime girlfriend just a bitch is fucking with because it was a mess you fucking we don't have said I'm holding you nothing let us at the show off because she probably good night buddy I'm not asking to go in the kitchen associate my family members so they forgot to see a whole also I don't mean

What's up Greg? I think that you have a good question. I think we all need to find our tribe and know our communities and choose according to what we know about our communities. And if she didn't feel, I think in her defense, it was smart for her to respond that way because she's putting, she's introducing herself how she wants to be remembered. And if she wants to be treated as a guest in future invites, then she's letting you know that. Don't put me to work.