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i feel that us stay at home moms, we get judged and told that this isn't like a full-time job when we're literally working 24-7. and so what are your your opinions on these judgments and how do you get over the criticism and the stigma that there is towards stay at home moms?
I have been a stay at home mom for three years now and I have gotten so many people, like even like a few of my friends and even like my family they judged me for it.
The kind of things that I get told to me is, oh you're just a stay at home mom, it's easy. You have nothing to complain about, nothing to worry about, or it's not even hard. It's easy. All you have to do is just sit at home all day.
I always get told that it's not a job, you are taking care of your kids, that's not considered a job. And it's just like a lot of like hateful comments and like stigma against it. Like I just don't get it.
And then especially when you mention that you are depressed or you have anxiety or whatever the case may be, you get judged for that too like, oh you shouldn't feel that way because you're a mom, like do you even understand?
Oh my god yes I couldn't agree with you more I think it's just ridiculous to stay when we got and I don't think people realize that's not just like physical work it's mental and emotional and that's like it's huge and I don't think they understand till they go through it
I'll say I'm the same way, but it just like still bothers me that people think that being a stay-at-home mom is super easy and You know like we don't do anything besides kick kick our feet up in the air. Just relax basically.
Yeah this is always bothered me so much and makes me so mad because this shit being a stay home mom is a hard work I used to be a teacher and this thing is a whole mom is so much harder much had to work than when I was a teacher for sure in my opinion so
I feel like I haven't heard that personally. I know that people might think it but I haven't like no one's I mean luckily for them they haven't told me anything but um yeah I obviously don't agree.