Here's another dealbreaker or maybe not a dealbreaker but it was odd this guy took me to dinner and paid half in cash and half on his card it was just weird it was weird and later when I asked him about that because we went out a couple more times and became friends he was like oh I just didn't think I was gonna spend that much money that night so I only brought this much cash and he's like you're right I probably should just put it on my card and then put the cash back and I was like I just looked interesting thoughts

I don't I don't find a word but I know a lot of people do that

Oh my god, I would never even consider, I would never even think that something like that could happen. On a date. I do not judge someone if we're like at the grocery store or if we're at Costco, I mean you gotta shift some funds around for the month, but if you're taking me out on a date and you need to advertise the fact that you don't have enough funds in one account to pay for dinner, I mean, yikes! Red flag.

But my next question is was that I mean it obviously wasn't the deal breaker because you went on another date with him But it did it become something on a list of reasons why you eventually would decide he wasn't your type I'm curious, what was the ultimate deal breaker?

I don't find it weird at all. I think most people we should like unless you're in a relationship or married You should like stay out of people's wallets, you know as like a general rule as long as the card doesn't get declined and you know You're not like running out of there and you know, whatever and everything's good to go Then I mean you don't need to ask the details. Maybe it was a point situation situation, maybe needed to return an offer, like you know, there's also see a rational explanation, but yeah I don't give much thought to it.