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Being single is something that I feel has always had a bit of a negative connotation to it Which I think is a bit of a shame because I think there's so much power and strength to be found in being single and I'm not talking about Where you're just jumping from app to app Which is nothing wrong if people want to do that But I'm talking about the fact that you get to sit down with yourself You get to be present with yourself and trying to find that sort of compassion and love and connection with yourself enjoy, you're gonna be growing in a relationship as well and you're gonna find immense growth in that too but being single you're kind of forced to just be with yourself and to just sort of be okay with it and find your way through through all that through all of your emotions all of your feelings and to be able to navigate that by yourself because no matter if we're single or in a relationship the main relationship we're gonna have in our lives is to relationship with ourselves. So if you nourish that and really take that time to get to know yourself, to work on yourself, to find the inner workings of who you are as a person, then that is going to provide you with such a strength within you and that strength is going to show in every relationship that you have. It's not only strength, it's going to bring compassion, it's going to bring love. Because when you're okay with yourself, when you sit with yourself and you're okay with yourself, you're gonna be able to show so much more love to other people as well. And I think the main goal of being single shouldn't be to ultimately find a partner, It should be to ultimately just be okay with who you are and love yourself for who you are because I think that's the true power
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I love what you said about the relationship of ourselves and I think we really and truly underestimate how how we treat ourselves and how we deal with ourselves isn't it's a ripple effects that goes on to other people i.e. the relationship you have your partner your friend your mum everyone around you and it's so important to have a period where you are by yourself and you just deal with certain issues that really need to be dealt with
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I think I was even saying this to my friend the other day I said I find it really shocking how people jump from relationship to relationship and don't like being with themselves which is the which is a red flag I think for me I've been single for a bit now and one thing that scares me as I really enjoy my own company and that's such a great place to be in because not everybody has to know everybody loves that space
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Yeah I like I don't understand why people even the most popular single why they think it's a bad thing I think it's good for like personal growth and it's good to be alone sometimes in learn yourself being in a relationship constantly does not show I feel like in my opinion you're up your emotional awareness because sometimes you need to be by yourself and give yourself a break after a relationship
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Totally has become a bad thing I mean dating apps pry on this idea that you need to be with someone but the fact is if you don't grow and are happy alone by yourself you're on successful dating so being single is not a bad thing
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Yeah I feel like it starts in the younger ages because everybody is so pressured to be dating or get into a relationship and then people start talking about sex and everything so it's definitely pressured from a young age but then realistically I feel like being single like you obviously you know I have less responsibilities you can do whatever you want and everything but I just like enjoying my own time now like I don't have to rely on anyone to do stuff with me I don't have to remember to text Anybody
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