OK also add the situation involves A member of my family who I was not like to be around we had to be around because they are family what are you do in that type of situation you don't wanna talk to this person but they are in your bloodline so in a way in a sense you have to but you don't wanna be around a person I wanna talk to no one see them anything like that what is your voice in five if you're in it is as being a type of situation