So so what is up my stereo family asking me for clear my throat let me clear my throat All right oh Llosa side so anyway when you're in a relationship right communication of course is Kia always say that but if U2 are going in opposite directions then you'll never meet on a common ground you know so you definitely have to communicate so if one person is going this way other person going that way um if they stay to get done then they won't get done so with that being said a do you and your partner like do you guys sit down or write out on plans or goals that you would like to achieve for the year or maybe even in your relationship and I'm saying this is this is for like people that plan on staying together not someone that she's dating and you know you're like 80 something to do or she something to at the time but I mean like longevity so to make your relationship better as far as with goals do you guys even play angles Husband and I on right now we're trying to work on him becoming more debt-free like you know getting our credit cards paid down and all that good stuff but we had to talk about that you know we had to discuss it is OK what is the weather going to do so like for me I am used to swipe and apps I probably have like 100 songs like men But I do between my business credit in my personal credit I have a lot of credit card so I didn't carry cash so I would always just swipe a card but with swipe in the car and you're a Karen Moore dead so now while I'm trying to pay my car is down I've taken a lot of my car is Adam a while I think I have like maybe one or two just for emergencies I'm taking them out of my wallet and I try to just pay for things with cash now so that's a goal that you know we have so what are some goals that you and your partner behalf show me guys

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