Do you think proposals should be like a grand display or like a private intimate moment? I'm gonna give you my opinion. I think that proposals should be private. Yes, I understand that you know you want to show it off and you want the whole family to be there or whatever. But at the end of the day, when y'all are going through your ups and downs and things as such, you're going to want it to be private then. So the proposal should be private and if you want to post it on Facebook in regards with you all or social media, I should say, in regards with you all being engaged, then do that. Granted displaying, spending all that money when you can actually save it for the wedding should be out of the question. simple would you marry me at a dinner?