I'm curious to know how you guys feel about your partners going to the strip club so personally it used to bother me in my relationships just because like I was insecure and I had never been to a strip club on my own and I always had this vision in my head of what a strip club once until like being in this new relationship I am so secure that I have no problem if the guys are having a night out because most his friends are single and pretty lame if he wants to go to the strip club with them especially if it's only like once in a blue moon And what made me even more comfortable and doing so was me and my partner went to a strip club once because we were out of town and had nothing to do and me actually going to the strip club really change my expectations on what really happens in certain strip clubs and so yeah I'm just curious to know how you guys feel about your partners going to the strip club

You know, I don't think going to a strip club is a huge deal. I don't really see the point in strip clubs I've never gotten them because paying for affection is not something that I've ever been able to really normalize to myself myself. But if you want to go for regular reasons, that's weird. but on trips if it's someone else's decision, fine.

Oh that's disgusting and if he does that then we're not gonna date anymore

I'm sorry, I'm a generous psychologist.

I would never ever let my girl go to a strip club. That's crazy. Not as dead

so for me I wouldn't say that I don't like it or it makes me uncomfortable I think it's just like my natural like boy don't play with me feelings but also like I'm mature and we have a good relationship and I'm like not like pressed about it so he's he can go with his friends but there are rules and like make limits state.

I don't have a partner right now but like if I did I like we will have to talk about it first but like at the same time it's like why would you want to go if you like or you have a woman and she gets stripped before you like you don't have to go to the strip club your friends can go to it they're single but like if you're in a relationship with somebody like they're your stripper for you just gonna pull in some money you know

This is one of those conversations that happens between a person and their partner and whatever decisions that they make our decisions that they make I don't think anybody should mirror their relationship based on what other couples decide to do or not to do and quite frankly if there's trust that couples can pretty much do whatever they want

Great question. I mean I wouldn't necessarily care as long as she's not getting all lap dance and touching. I mean you can like throw a little one two here and there. One or two that's it not here and there you can throw a little one two and that's it. But you're not smacking the ass. No. You can do maybe like one smack with the one and then another one you just clip it in or throw and then you're done. But yeah, you can go just bare minimum.

I feel like if your partner wants to go to the strip club does something wrong with the relationship because like something is definitely happening why would you wanna go to a strip club and you're already in a relationship

So fun fact me and my partner don't even like strip clubs we just think they're dirty and weird and no I don't think it's a I think it's an old wives tale honestly that men should be able to go especially for for wedding why why do you need to go see other women when you have your hot piece of ass at home