safety feel that no matter where you reside in the world there are situations that may challenge our safety some situations may literally be as literal as I don't have a shelter right now there's no way I could possibly feel safe other situations may be every time I go home it's always fighting it's always drama I don't feel safe how can I feel at ease right now? and so forth feeling safe, I feel, is a pivotal foundation in order for us to move, accelerate, progress in life when I feel frozen, I realize that I'm not feeling safe if I'm feeling defensive or if I want to just run away feeling like maybe I'm not feeling safe being in the sympathetic nervous system fight, flight, or freeze can take over our mental, our emotional, and our physical being aware of our responses to various situations is pivotal in order for us to move forward