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I don't know if you've ever noticed this listening to my previous soundbites etc but I'm a very big fan of communication and Especially on like how you can improve your communication and get better at it But I wanted to ask you guys a little bit about What's your view on like how much you can share with people? Because I've always been like a very open person like to my friends. I just like share so many details and like share most things about my life and I do think that at some points like I don't know if it's good I should it be better to not do it but I'd be curious to know like what are you guys's thoughts on this like do you think that people should be a bit more reserved and like keep more of more things to themselves or is it like a good thing to just be as open as possible So yeah, let me know your thoughts on this.
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Being open and honest is a virtue and it's a good thing. Just remember early on you don't have to be an open book Look, people don't know you, and even though you might be comfortable with everything that's they aren't yet.
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Hi personally it honestly just depends about the topic of my life that I'm talking about a prime example is I was in a car accident that resulted in a brain injury and I have no problem telling anybody and everybody the story what I've learned stuff like that and get it really in-depth but like I say for example my actual relationship I try to keep as much of like the Internet working details of my relationship not out there if that makes sense
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And I do it because there's something about having the relationship be just between me and my partner and those that are close to me because it gives it more of like an intimate feeling so I mean will post pictures of each other on social media I'll have him up here on stereo but like any more details than that we really don't talk about like none of our problems know that like we just keep it really intimate
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So yeah I just believe that you know it's perfectly fine to be open and honest about certain things in your life like people view me as a really open person even though I still am reserved within certain topics like some topics that I really don't talk about unless people are like really really close and my best friends are like politics my relationship life my sex life like only those Kinda details I'll talk to was like my two closest best friends
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Think you should be honest as long as you know what you're telling them about and being vulnerable about. Be honest with the things that you know that if they bring it up again that you won't be hurt by it or triggered by it. So you have to be honest about what you're willing to be close about with people.
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How much should we share with other people I think it's good to discern who is for you and who is worth over sharing I can have a good good friend of mine and I could tell her everything that she knows every single detail about my life however sometimes during certain seasons i.e. let's say she lost her job and I just got a promotion don't be times where I won't say anything because
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Because I'm thinking although I know she supports me and she loves me she's in a period right now where good news might trigger her sadness so that's just one example and then I had another friend I am who I was just like after I saw that she would use certain things against me I was like wow you are not someone I can trust with every single part of me so I think it's just you just have to design to be honest
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I'm sorry this is the last one you're not everyone has good intentions about you know everyone is for you and that is absolutely okay and some people you need to let them assume whatever I am and if sometimes we over Sheneman over share as well because we really wanna help other people who want people to know you know I relate to you all I've been through that situation so many things player factor but again the signing is key
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