Do you think it's selfish or offensive to ask for oil sex? Like if you're in a relationship or dating or whatever and you find yourself not receiving anything from the person that you have been giving to, do you think it is selfish or offensive to ask for it in return? And me personally, I don't think it's selfish or offensive for you to ask for something that you may like if you like oral sex X for it I feel like that's something that should be talked about within the conversation of wanting to get to know someone Whether or not if that person like giving or receiving or Um, yeah, it's coming since.