Communicating about what you want to need in the bedroom is so important. I remember times especially when I was younger and just kind of experimenting that I did not communicate and was not satisfied. Girl don't be busting it open and not actually busting nothing. Let's get real. On top of that I just feel like some people don't because they're afraid that the other person's pride and ego may be hurt. that they won't take it as something they need to do or a tip, but they'll take it as like, you know, kind of a slap in the face Like what do you mean? but communicate anyway and if they ain't willing to get the job done there's someone out there who will