So what is up my stereo family? This is another week. I pray you all are doing wonderful and I pray you all had an excellent weekend. So we all know that with relationships and everything there comes tradition. A lot of people are really traditional, but as the years have gone on, there's a lot of people that don't really even look at tradition as like, you know, they're like, hey, I'm not, that's back in the old times. I can do what I wanna do. So my ladies, my ladies, my ladies, say you were dating someone and you wanted to be married, you're ready for marriage, but he just has not asked you yet. Would you actually propose to your man? Like I've seen it on, I've seen it on like some reality shows. Would you propose to your man? Me personally, I wouldn't because I feel like, you know, a man, if he wants to, you know, if you guys, if he really wants to marry you, then he will ask you. But that's just me. You know, I'm a little traditional, so my husband did ask me to marry me after three months of us dating. We've been together now, what, 13 years? Yeah, we've been together for a long time. So that doesn't always work for everybody. So again, my sister, is what you actually propose to your man. Sean and please.

I know you're not asking me because no I wouldn't propose to a man, you know, but I I on the other side around, bro, I wouldn't accept it.

No nope

Nah, I wouldn't and I guess as a part of the traditionalism just like my upbringing and background I don't know something like that just don't sit right with my soul Not that I judge people who do I definitely get it because I go girl give it to me Give what you want, you know what I'm saying, but um nah I'm not getting out of my need and proposing to anybody.

This is one of those things I make you go, hmm, you know, I would have to like talk to the do-me like, hey, do you have any intention on doing this? Yeah, I would do you mind if I do this? You know, I feel like I would have to have that conversation outright. You know, is this something that you want to take or is this something I take? You know, but it can't be up in the air for either, I feel. Can it? Where are these rules coming from?

No I'm not doing that because whoever he is for me would understand that that is his place not mine and in order for a man to lead me because I want a man to leave me in a relationship he would have to be the initiator of that