As a first time mom I remember when I first brought my daughter home I was bombarded by messages when people come over and I feel like I was in such a bad mindset Reven make those decisions and be able to tell people know like I want to wait and all that didn't happen which I mean whatever I did like the support though so she from both our moms but I am and I also received a lot of criticism as how I was doing things with my child And I think this puts such a heavy load on me and I just completely struggle because I can't always always I felt like I was doing something wrong because of the credit criticism that I would receive but really it worked for me and it worked for our daughter and there was nothing wrong with how I was doing things I was just completely different than what others were doing but then again I was constantly told them doing it wrong or shouldn't be doing it that way

This is something I never understood. I feel like the way moms do things or the way moms parents should not be anybody else's business. Everybody's just so quick to criticize every single small thing moms do.

I don't know why but I think it's the fact that since print gnu mini think that we don't know what we're doing so they just want to keep what they used to do or what you should do

At the end of the day, I think it all just comes down to opinions and beliefs. You're getting criticism because they have another opinion, obviously. But people are not always going to see eye to eye. And I feel like it's just...

I feel like most people just don't understand like when you have when you first have a baby like there's a lot of Like emotions hormones and just exhaustion that goes along with it. So I Don't I don't know?

That kind of comes down to your own ability to set your own personal boundaries with people. Because if it works, it works.

If you're a new mom, no one got faith in you. And they gotta give you their opinion because if the baby doesn't even sneeze right, it can die. So everyone's very, very overprotective.

And I think it's good training for later down the road when You start getting all the complaints from the parents and teachers and other kids if your son's acting up or daughter

People are just very judgmental and love to criticize everything. That's just kind of what I boil it down to.

Could be because a tradition in the house things have been for personal reasons and then they're like oh yeah let's do this let's do that blah blah and then they think they're doing good on on their part but at the same time it's a crossing the boundary and you want your space you want that

Definitely agree there is constantly a criticism even after being a mom for 6+ years I still feel like I'm being criticize or judge on how I'm doing a particular thing just cause it's not to someone else's