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Be honest how many relationships did you have based on the idea you had with you and the person versus who the actual person was I think a lot of us get caught up in the potential or we could be days or when we get all we may have this in our kids will be so cute and all of that but that it's not gonna happen if you don't work through all the kinks all the way
I'm gonna say no and I feel like that's what my main problem was because I thought it was gonna be that way but it never was that shit and then the backfiring on me Oh man
I mean, you thought it was going to be a certain way and it wasn't. How many relationships did you start like that, where you thought it was going to be one way and it wasn't.
I totally agree with you. We always put up false expectations and high expectations on the other person and that's why at the end of the day you end up disappointed.
It's so frustrating that you actually start making a lot of plans with that person and then none of that happens so we feel like our life has come to an end but it's not like that.
I think this is what makes break up the hardest is that you idolize the relationship for help made you feel versus how it was I don't think this happens so much in the beginning because you don't really know a person so you shouldn't be blaming yourself to any idea of anyone until you know them
This right here. Exactly. I had to get to a point where I'm just like, why am I upset? I'm upset because it didn't pan out to what I thought, not because of the person.
So for this I would say a solid two after that second time. Fool me got fooled again and fool me did not like it. And that's when I kind of realized holy shit am I dating the same person in a different body and then it's like no girl it's you you're the problem wake up