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What's up you guys the whether you're married or just dating on two people are never going to be on the same path on the same note each and every time so if you have arguments or you want to go one place she wants to go another place You want to go shopping he says you need to save money how do you go about coming to a common ground of OK and we're gonna be together you know Everything that you want to do I mean I want to do everything that he wants to do she may not want to do so how do you just come to a common ground to where you guys can be on the same accord without arguing Have you guys ever experienced anything like that and if so try man
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Well, it's not about disagreements in themselves so much as what the disagreements are about. So first and foremost, if your disagreements are indicative of a relationship not being practical, then you guys need to just break up.
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Secondly, this is best addressed in the beginning by choosing someone with the right character and by being someone with the right character. If you're both givers and self-sacrificing, then you both should be okay with doing what the other wants to do.
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Thirdly, try coming up with win-win solutions. So for example, if neither of you wants to eat at the same restaurant, then consider ordering takeout from both restaurants and eating at a park.
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Lastly, you both need to accept that you are two completely different people and that you both need to make space for each other to be yourselves. You need to make space for your partner to be him or herself and your partner needs to do the same for you. Period.
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As for the money thing, you too might have completely different value systems when it comes to money and financial compatibility is important to determine before you get into relationship.
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Hey Leah thank you for your breakdown of them on this on this topic thank you so much for coming through and taking the time to leave a response I don't listen to all of them thank you
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You know, at the end of the day, you put as much stock into an argument as you put into an argument. Why does it bother you? If you're not looking at the reasons within yourself and going, It's me and my partner versus this problem. Not so much me versus my partner. You're not doing it right.
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Thank you, John. Never looked at it that way. Maybe I have to start looking at it your way. Thank you so much.
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Okay, so I've been in my relationship for 10 years now and you know sometimes you just gotta not get what you want so the other person can do what they want to do. You know what I mean?
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Personally what I usually try to do is I try and figure out why they're upset like figure out their reasoning and then if they're willing I usually tell them my reasoning of why I'm upset about something
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Yes, I've experienced myself being in a relationship. I think everyone who's been in a relationship must have experienced this once. I'd say to find common ground you just need to find an effective way of communicating with one another.
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Depends on if I care to find a solution with them if I cannot find a solution with them I just put my points there they put the points and we come to some type of compromise if I don't I don't
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All you gotta do is drop them. If they ain't at the right drop them. Wait, they talk about the rule. They don't drop them. Stop talking to your ghost. I don't care.
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You say that now because you sound kind of young and you're probably not married, but like in this situation if someone was married, you can't just easily drop the person. You have to work out your differences. You know, take them thin.
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Yeah I'm good are you ready for Rubilite if you really like them then yeah you gotta work that out but if you really liked him didn't go ahead find another one
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Thank you thank you but your back and days have I would like some ice come up that same day like so I'm done but I'm married
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Yes, that makes a lot of sense. That wow. Thank you.
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I would come to an agreement with him. I'm most of the time flexible but I will explain my reasons on why I have to or I'm making this decision.
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