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So I feel like dating, especially when you're entering a long-term relationship, can get quite repetitive. And so in terms of switching things up, I like to ask for ideas from other people and they tell me what they are down for. But I want to know what's a date you'll say no to. For me, it's something revolving... there's actually a lot. I'm not a fan of movie theaters and believe it or not, I have not sat in a movie theater in seven years. I just don't get it. You're just sitting there watching a screen in the dark for two hours. Like you're you're not able to carry a conversation. It's just very off-putting to me and so I much rather do something more interactive. But that's just me. But yeah, Yeah, I would love to hear what you have to say.
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Movies. Going to a movie has to be the worst first date ever. You basically sit down, be quiet, and don't get to know each other. Like that's not a date at least not a first date
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Well, I'm glad you agree because that's exactly the example I used in my post and I feel like to do something more interactive It's just better off for everyone.
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An automatic nose camping we could go hiking we could go in the cabin sleeping in the floor and with a tent No, I'm good.
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Oh my gosh, actually though, I agree and most people do not believe me when I say this, but I've actually never been camping in my whole entire life. And if I ever were to camp, I rather be in like a cabin like I can't do the tent so I get where you're coming from
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I thought I was the only one that had this perception of going to the movies I have always found so silly just going on a supposed date to do that
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You don't even get to interact with the other person, it just ends up being frustrated.
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Yeah, exactly. I've been telling my friends this for years. I'm like why the movies? Like I get it It's a place to be entertained for several hours, but you're literally not talking and you're looking at a screen
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Exactly, big on interaction. I can't just like be silent either and you know even with movies in my own home I can't sit still for two hours. I have to be like multitasking or doing something while watching
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What I would say no to is to a camping day. I'm just not into it because there going to be a lot of bugs and it's going to be so uncomfortable.
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Yeah, someone else said camping on here as well, and it's interesting too because I've never been camping, and I do not plan on going. So if I ever were to go quote-unquote camping, it would be in a cabin, and it has to have like all the amenities.
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In general, before I even know what the day will be, if the guy says, hey, why don't you pick a spot? I'm just gonna say no. I don't care what we're doing, I'm gonna say no.
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That is totally understandable. Actually, my partner, he's really great at making me feel seen and heard. So if there's something I want to do, he doesn't mind or will work something out so that it could eventually happen.
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As you know, knock on wood, healthy and happy, my current relationship is. In the past, I've had guys say, I don't know, what do you want to do? And then it's like, okay, well, now I'm not interested because if you can't plan meeting up then why are we meeting up in the first place especially when you asked me?
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Going over his house late at night, that's not a fucking date, dude. That's a fucking hangout, so no.
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This is such a good one, especially when I was single. I had a lot of guys ask me to go to their place and it would be at an odd hour, like late at night, like you said. Just no, like that's just not attractive at all.
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Anything cheaper than McDonald's yard
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First day with somebody I do not know, we are not going to a sporting event. We are not going to a cinema, your house. don't want to meet your family members so do not add me as a plus one to an event.
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I would say going to the movies because that's not a real date like you can't even talk so definitely no to the movies and also no to like going to like a pool hall because I'm just not into that scene and I don't like to shoot pool so So yeah, those will be my two.
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Anything related with like camping walking Sky diving Klein mean anything like that I'm not interested in it or like I can walk but like now walk in a trail you know like in the forest you know where there's parks
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