So I was reading this article from New York Times and in it they were saying that more and more couples are not sleeping in the same bedroom. Like they're actually sleeping in a completely different room from one another because of sleeping habits such as snoring and moving around a lot or just because they have different schedules. And I want to know is it bad that you're not sleeping in the same bed because for me, as much as I respect their decisions to not be in the same room, for me, I can't do that. I love physical touch, it's my love language, and I feel much more comfortable having my partner next to me. But everyone is very different, so I'm curious to know your thoughts.

I'm gonna speak a hundred percent real with you. I'm looking at my woman right now in the whole another bedroom laying down No, that's it ain't cool. Ain't that much tiredness in the world? There's too much shit going on spinning every second like it's your last some jealous that she got this little small blanket There's only enough room for her now for both of us that little small blanket I know the one you got that only go to your ankles. That's bullshit.

So it actually used to be the norm that married couples would not sleep in the same bed, but in the same room. Sometimes even different rooms at that. My grandparents are one of those people and it actually keeps a relationship fairly healthy for whatever reason. There's no tugging of the sheets. There's no snoring issues. I mean maybe snoring issues are in the same room. There's no here? I'm big.

I guess whatever works for other people's fine for me personally I don't think I would enjoy but not sleeping in the same room or bed as my partner

I don't think it is. I know first time before we got this new apartment, me and my dude had our own rooms and it worked out really really great. People were like, oh that's just a roommate. But it's like, oh no honey, I didn't have to pay anything. You know what I'm saying? I just like my own space. I have a very different aesthetic as he does as far as decorations go. My room looked like a teenage boy with anime posters everywhere and his was more so grown man vibes. So yeah.

OK I believe it's an archaic kind of even poverty kind of thing that people slept together just hear me out yeah wealthy people have their own rooms I want my own big luscious bed with my shit on the kind of Blankey's I want we have completely different schedules I am in bed now they don't come to bed for two more hours then we can book sexy time I'll have my own dressing room

No, this is not bad. This is good. If you're not compatible sleepers, you gotta get some rubens.

Now man, I do this for a long time if you're not good sleepers in the same sleeping area It's good to sleep in separate sleeping areas.

It's actually super interesting that you bring this up because I listened to a podcast the other day with a scientist who his main research field is sleep and sleep has like such immense consequences to our health and he brought this up as well and kind of mentioned that this is getting more and more common because actually one of the biggest reasons for divorce is like sleep like lack of sleep.