So I was reading this article from New York Times and in it they were saying that more and more couples are not sleeping in the same bedroom. Like they're actually sleeping in a completely different room from one another because of sleeping habits such as snoring and moving around a lot or just because they have different schedules. And I want to know is it bad that you're not sleeping in the same bed because for me, as much as I respect their decisions to not be in the same room, for me, I can't do that. I love physical touch, it's my love language, and I feel much more comfortable having my partner next to me. But everyone is very different, so I'm curious to know your thoughts.

You know, I mean, I don't even think you should move in with someone before you're married, because why give someone all the perks of marriage without the commitment? So yeah, I don't know.

physical touch is a huge deal for me so I will absolutely not agree with us having two separate beds at all. We'll find peace with his snores and not if it becomes annoying.

You can be OK I don't think that leg It's like doesn't have it if it feels OK what time is it then it feels OK to them if not then no

Are you not able to get the physical touch when you're awake? I'm confused. I mean, how much of a physical touch when you're sleeping, like can you even register that? Is that impactful to you? I'm curious.

Hell no I got a twin bed hat lol

I mean it all comes down to what is most comfortable for you and your partner I mean realistically if you are waking up at different times and you're actually having a negative impact on each other sleep the night crashing cause more problems than just either sleeping in I'm in separate beds there's a transition rate so you can either go separate duvets in the same bed so they are not like you not messing up the duvet split or you do separate beds but near each other and you do to prevent far away from each other or completely different rooms

I totally agree with you because physical touch is also one of my love languages and I will feel like weird if my partner is not sleeping with me

I'm sure if he will do that and that's fine for them for me I find it a bit weird I don't know and if it works for them fine but I'm not with that

I don't even want to be in the same house as my partner. I always tell him that we would be much happier if we lived in separate homes because I'm very clean and he's very dirty and on top of that I work in the mornings and he works graveyards.

Yeah, like if we're not going to sleep in the same bed or the same house, like what is what is the point? What is even the point?